Recognising and admitting to yourself that you don’t just enjoy vanilla sex is one thing, but going out and finding somebody to enjoy a kinkier kind of date with is quite another. These days, there’s no shame in being loud and proud about what you enjoy in the bedroom. In fact, it’s seen as empowering when both men and women are open and upfront about their sexual style preferences. But finding someone who enjoys the same kind of sexual relationship isn’t always easy – it’s not the kind of thing you drop into conversation on a first date (unless you’re super confident). So, how can you openly share your preferences and successfully find a partner who enjoys the same kind of physical relationship?
Niche dating sites
One of the very best ways to guarantee that you’ll find somebody who enjoys the same kind of bedroom activity as you it to use a niche dating site.
Gone are the days when you would just sign up to a dating site and arrange to go on a date night in the hope that you might get what you’re looking for. These days, it’s really easy to sign up for a dating site in a specific niche so that you know that you’re going to be chatting to people who enjoy exactly the same kinds of sexual relationships that you do. So, if you’re a Dominatrix looking to find your perfect Sub, then there are dating sites geared up specifically to help you do just that.
But it’s not just the lovers of the femdom lifestyle that can find what they’re looking for on dating websites. Pretty much every possible niche style of dating you could possibly think of is covered.
Dating websites offer the perfect way for even the most nervous of people to start to dip their toe into the world of BDSM dating. It can be pretty daunting trying to figure out exactly what it is you’re looking for and then to actually be open about it with other people! Using a dating website gives you a kind of protective barrier around yourself so that you can share your deepest desires with likeminded people, without giving too much away about yourself until you’re ready.
Of course, the very nature of BDSM dating means that eventually you will likely want to meet up with somebody to enjoy some fun times together. With any kind of dating, it’s important to put your safety first. But this is particularly true of BDSM dating, where there can be a fine line between pleasure and pain. Just make sure that you agree some ground rules together before you meet up and that you both know exactly what’s acceptable for each other and what’s not. It’s also a good idea to let somebody else know where you’re going too – you don’t need to go into the details of what you’re going for, but it’s still always a good idea that somebody knows where you are.
As with any dating niche, it’s all about having fun and getting to know new people. So, let your hair down, get chatting online and enjoy yourself!
